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Rituals are actions that symbolically connect us.
The Importance of Rituals: For Comfort in Grief or In Your Days
By Sheena Nancy Sarles
Rituals are actions that symbolically connect us to something that is meaningful. Rituals can be comforting, express feelings, bring about a sense of closure, or keep an important part of the past alive.
Rituals mark time as well as create time. Rituals give us structure in our social world by designating a beginning or an end: Baptism, Naming, Christening, Bat Mitzvahs, Graduations, Engagement, Marriage, Divorce, Birthdays, First day of school photos, Proms, Retirement parties, and of course, funerals, and memorials.
GRIEF RITUALS:
I create Rituals around my losses. As we come to this age, loss and transitions are more prevalent. We transition from that of a young mother, wife, new career to grandmother, single, retired. These are some of our losses. We also experience the loss by death of friends, family, and those whose presence we enjoyed, authors, celebrities, or global leaders.
When we create a Ritual around loss, we honor both ourselves and those who are remembered.
The phases of Rituals in Grief are:
Separation from what was -
My life is now without my spouse, sister, child, friend
Transitions from what was to what is and will be
One step at a time as we navigate the void
Adjusting to the ‘new’ normal
Living alone, not seeing our beloved, new label (widow, orphan, etc.)
We need Rituals because with our loss, we can feel that our lives are out of control, filled with deep grief and chaos, and loss of balance. Rituals can restore that sense of control. For example, if everyday we wake up and create a ritual of finding one memory of our loved one, we honor them and ourselves, and it can be the same memory every day! I often think of my sister and how she loved to get in a warm pool backwards down the ladder and upon entering the waters, saying ‘Ahhhh’ with her eyes closed. She was so happy and that brings a smile to my heart.
Creating a Grief Ritual does not have to be complicated.
Think about (or write down): What is the meaning of your ritual? To bring you comfort; to create something consistent in your chaos; to relieve your stress
Decide when the ritual will take place: Once a day when you wake up or go to sleep; once a year on the anniversary of the event; or anytime
Decide where the ritual will take place: In their favorite chair, by the beach, at a restaurant, in your of place of worship, again anywhere.
Decide who participates: Sometimes, the ritual needs to involve another person or group such a close family. Other times, it can seem more meaningful to do it alone
Create the actual Ritual: Drinking coffee from their mug; going to a special setting, or simply any space that you define as sacred. Any Ritual can be seconds, hours, and whatever meets your needs and desires.
RITUALS GRIEF AND CHAKRAS
Each of your Chakras, the subtle energy centers that engage within your emotional, spiritual, physical, and nervous bodies, holds a key to your Rituals. Wear something, eat something, do something that connects you to your loved one.
ROOT: The first Chakra located in your lower extremities, perineum, coccyx are where we find support, grounding, a sense of stability and trust. The ritual of taking a conscious walk, feeling your body grounded, or massaging your feet can bring grounding and trust.
SACRAL: The second Chakra, located in between your pubic bone and navel, offers the flow and connection to your beloved by consciously moving your body through dance, yoga, walking or whatever gives your body some flow.
SOLAR PLEXUS: This third Chakra, centered between your navel and lowest rib, honors yourself and is the inspiration to commit to Rituals. Here is the fire of your motivation to create and sustain your Rituals.
HEART: The fourth Chakra, located in the center of your chest at your actual heart honors the love that never ends. Photos, memories, and knowing that in death, the relationship does not end, it only changes.
THROAT: At your throat is your communication of your creative energy. Rituals are creative communications between you and your beloved such as writing them a letter, creating fine art, cooking their favorite dish, or whatever expresses your connection.
THIRD EYE: Just between and above your brows, is your sixth Chakra. Rituals provide insight into flow of your grief. As your two eyes looks out, your third eye looks inward to honor your insight, intuition, knowledge and brilliance. Your Rituals opportunities are as vast as your imagination.
CROWN: Just above the crown of your head hovers this seventh Chakra. Rituals acknowledge the divine aspect of your connections through mediation, worship, dreams, and unbounded thoughts.
Not only does a grief ritual help you heal as you regain steady emotions, it gives you and other friends and family an opportunity to remember and reflect on your loved one’s life. Having a regular ritual to remember them and honor their life is essential in a healthy grieving process.
DAILY RITUALS:
We have daily Rituals that provide a sense of comfort and continuity. When I awake, my first Ritual is think of three things I am grateful for. Then I rub my hands and touch the earth to start my day literally grounded.
Your Rituals might include how you make your coffee, taking a walk first thing, or reading the news (watch out that this doesn’t get you stressed!)
My skin care Ritual is first and last thing is to look in the mirror, say “Thank You” and then using facial acupressure to apply with love, care, and awareness, my facial serum (GYG Organic Facial Serum!) Every morning I splash cold water on face seven times - it feels great. I bless my food as a Ritual. I try to make as much of my day as sacred as possible by creating a Ritual around what could also be viewed as mundane. I give my small pleasures and necessary actions some meaning.
Here the Rituals of some great artists and thinkers: The rising-at-dawn bit came from Ernest Hemingway, who was up at around 5.30am, even if he'd been drinking the night before; the strong coffee was borrowed from Beethoven, who personally counted out the 60 beans his morning cup required. Benjamin Franklin swore by "air baths", which was his term for sitting around naked in the morning, whatever the weather. And the midday cocktail was a favorite of VS Pritchett (among many others).
Create a Ritual that you commit to once a day or once a year or anytime, that brings an inner smile to your being. Rituals offer comfort, creativity, inspiration, and presence.
What you do with awareness becomes living fully in the present. Isn’t that where we all strive to exist?
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Embracing Our Well-Being ~ Movement, Meditation, and Motivation for Women Over 60 By Sheena Nancy Sarles As we age, maintaining our holistic approach to health becomes increasingly vital. For women over 60, integrating movement, meditation, and motivation into our daily routines can lead to many physical, mental, and emotional benefits. These pillars of wellness are essential for enhancing quality of life, promoting longevity, and ensuring a vibrant and fulfilling existence. There is a great deal of information on healthy aging as we ‘boomers’ are meeting the challenges of growing older. We want to live fully and enjoy our blessings. While we know that the are more days behind us than ahead, let’s keep moving forward as best we can. There is no magic elixir for aging, if there were, we would all be drinking it, A LOT! My journey in this fascinating and sometimes challenging chapter has taught me that Movement, Mediation, and Motivation are a lifestyle choice. These are not new concepts, but they are worth repeating in a renewed perspective Movement ~ The Foundation of Physical Health We are in these physical bodies and we need to move. We might not have the energy or the knees to do what we did 20 years ago, but we can still move. It doesn’t matter if you walk five minutes a day or run a marathon, your bones, muscles, heart, and cells are calling you to move, move, move!!! Regular physical activity is crucial for women over 60 to maintain muscle mass, bone density, and cardiovascular health. As our bodies age, we naturally loses muscle strength and flexibility and have a higher risk for falls and fractures. With regular movement, such as walking, swimming, or yoga, we can meet these age-related changes. Many people have found that their aches and pains may be present, but moving seems to diminish those trouble spots. I do believe that many of our aches are just our bodies telling us that our sedentary choices are not serving us to our highest good. So stroll, walk, run, dance, swim, kayak, bike, practice yoga, or find something (ANYTHING!) that you enjoy and immerse in it as often as you can. Strength and Flexibility: Strength training exercises a few times a week can markedly improve your muscle mass and strength.Weightlifting or resistance band exercises are great choices. Flexibility exercises, such as stretching or yoga, help maintain the range of motion in joints, reducing stiffness and discomfort. Cardiovascular Health: Brisk walking, cycling, or swimming enhance cardiovascular health by improving heart function and circulation. Regular aerobic exercise lowers the risk of chronic conditions such as heart disease, hypertension, and diabetes, which are more prevalent in older adults. Mental Well-being: Physical activity is a powerful mood booster. It releases endorphins and oxytocin the body's natural feel-good hormones, which help reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety. Regular movement also promotes better sleep, which is crucial for overall mental health. The very best exercise is the one you will do! Meditation ~ Nurturing the Mind and Spirit Meditation offers amazing benefits for mental and emotional well-being, making it an invaluable practice for women over 60. As life slows down, the mind often remains busy with worries about health, family, and the future. Meditation provides a sanctuary of peace and clarity amidst the noise. So many of us think: I can’t sit still. I have too much to do. My mind is too busy. My favorite is, I tried meditation once and it didn’t do anything for me. That is like going to the gym once and saying I didn't lose five pounds, it doesn’t work for me. Practice is the key! Stress Reduction: One of the most significant benefits of meditation is its ability to reduce stress. Regular meditation practice lowers cortisol levels, the body's primary stress hormone. This reduction in stress helps decrease the risk of stress-related illnesses, such as heart disease and high blood pressure. Cognitive Function: Meditation has been shown to improve cognitive function, enhancing memory, focus, and mental clarity. It encourages the growth of grey matter in the brain, which is associated with processing information and emotions. Cognitive decline is a common concern. Emotional Balance: Meditation cultivates emotional resilience and balance. We observe our thoughts and emotions and witness without judgment, fostering a sense of acceptance and inner peace. This can be particularly empowering for women over 60, as it helps us navigate the emotional challenges that often accompany aging. Meditation takes practice, so start a gentle, short, breath and stillness session today! Motivation ~The Drive to Thrive Motivation is the driving force that propels any of us to achieve our goals and live life to the fullest. For women over 60, staying motivated is essential, although not always easy, for maintaining an active and engaged lifestyle. Goal Setting: Setting small, realistic and achievable goals is a powerful motivator. Whether it's learning a new skill, pursuing a hobby, or committing to a fitness routine, having clear objectives provides direction and purpose. Celebrating small victories along the way reinforces the motivation to keep going. Remember “The Little Red Engine’… I think I can!” Social Connections: Maintaining social connections is a key factor. Participating in group activities, such as fitness classes, book clubs, or volunteering, fosters a sense of community and belonging. Our social network can provide emotional support and encouragement, making it easier to stay committed to personal goals. Positive Attitude: Cultivating a positive mindset is crucial for motivation. Practicing gratitude, appreciation for the even the smallest blessing, focusing on strengths, and embracing a can-do attitude can help overcome challenges and frustrations. A positive outlook not only boosts motivation but also enhances overall happiness and life satisfaction. A gratitude practice I recently cultivated is not only to name what I am grateful but to add the why. I am grateful for my body that can walk with ease because I get to smell the flowers along the way. “The mind is everything. What you think you become.” – Buddha In Conclusion ~ For women over (and under!) 60, the combination of movement, meditation, and motivation forms a powerful triad for holistic well-being. Regular physical activity ensures a strong and healthy body, while meditation nurtures the mind and spirit. Motivation drives growth and engagement, fostering a fulfilling and vibrant life. By embracing these practices, women can navigate the challenges of aging with grace, resilience, and joy. “Aging is not ‘lost youth’ but a new stage of opportunity and strength.” Betty Friedan
DO YOU SHOW SPECIAL ATTENTION TO THE DELICATE SKIN AROUND YOUR EYES? BY SHEENA NANCY SARLES MARCH 20, 2024 BEAUTY As we age, we notice how our skin changes in appearance and texture. We can attribute the look and feel of our skin to our lifestyle, our nourishment, our genetics, and our skin care regimen. Wrinkles around the eyes may develop as the skin ages, due to it losing the ability to renew itself. Certain essential oils and products may help to diminish those wrinkles in the eye area. However, whatever product you use, remember to apply it by very, very, very gently dabbing or patting. Never rub, pull, tug, or use anything stronger than a light touch from your middle or fourth finger. Your index finger is just too strong for delicate application. Wrinkle Categories We may have one or more types of creases under and over our eyes, each of which occurs due to a different cause. Dynamic Wrinkles Dynamic wrinkles form from repeated contraction of muscles underneath the skin. They typically develop between the eyebrows and on the forehead. Crow’s feet, which are wrinkles near the outer corners of the eyes, are also an example of dynamic wrinkles. Static Wrinkles Static wrinkles remain visible even when the facial muscles are at rest. They form as a result of exposure to the sun, smoking, and poor nutrition. Wrinkle Folds Another type of wrinkle is the wrinkle fold. This is the age-related sagging of facial structures that usually develop in the grooves between the nose and mouth, but they may also occur underneath the eyes. Prevention Wrinkles are an inevitable part of aging, but people can take steps to prevent them. Home remedies such as placing slices of cucumber on the eyes or applying banana face masks, are popular, but there is no scientific data to support these, although they feel good and can ‘plump’ those areas of delicate skin for a short period of time. Other methods include: Wearing sunscreen with a minimum SPF of 30 every day. Avoiding sitting in direct sunlight. Moisturizing gently with organic products every day. Only gently patting the under and over eye area. Quitting smoking, if relevant. Eating a healthful, balanced diet. The Good News The good news is that some studies suggest that polyphenols, chemical compounds found in foods and essential oils, can diminish the appearance of eye wrinkles. The four main categories of polyphenols are: Flavonoids, found in colorful fruits, vegetables, tea, and wine. Phenolic acids, found in the seeds, skins, and leaves of fruits and vegetables. Lignans, found in whole grains, nuts, and seeds. Stilbenes are abundant in peanuts, grapes, and berries. We can all do our own research, experimentation, and applications to see what enhances our particular delicate eye area skin texture. From my own experimentation, I found that combining certain organic essential oils reduces my dry, creased, and loose eye area skin. My Organic Growing Younger Gracefully Eye Serum GYG Organic Eye Serum is a unique formula of: Castor Oil Rich in polyphenols, Castor Oil penetrates the skin and has been shown to stimulate the body’s own production of collagen and elastin. Castor oil is a humectant, meaning it helps the skin hold onto water molecules and helps to sustain hydration over a longer period of time. Grapeseed Oil Grapeseed Oil rejuvenates the skin naturally, nourishing while minimizing the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles under eye area where dark circles appear. Coconut Oil Coconut Oil carries antioxidants and anti-inflammatory compounds that can hydrate the under eye area, reduce inflammation, and potentially lighten dark circles. Almond Oil Almond Oil can help to lighten the dark circles under the eyes and reduce puffiness thanks to its anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties. It also contains retinol, vitamin E, and vitamin K, which can keep the delicate skin under your eyes smooth without irritating it. These naturally occurring ingredients may also help contract the dilated blood vessels that are causing the discoloration. Avocado Oil Avocado Oilcan help reduce dark circles, puffiness, and wrinkles. It can be used morning and evening to reduce the appearance of signs of fatigue or skin sagging. Gently dabbing (never tugging or rubbing) helps to stimulate blood and lymphatic circulation, and has a draining effect. Avocado oil is suitable for all skin types. Helichrysum Oil Helichrysum Oil tightens and tones the delicate skin around the eyes, quickly absorbing to remove puffiness, and supports plumping to give your eyes a fresh vibrant look. We have all tried different eye care regimens over the years. Some worked, others didn’t. Whatever you decide to do for your eye area, just remember – always be gentle!
Are Your Eyes Sparkling? The delicate skin around our eyes needs special care and attention As we age, we notice how our skin changes in appearance and texture. We can attribute how our skin looks and feels to our lifestyle, our nourishment, our genetics, and our skin care to our mature skin. Wrinkles under the eye may develop as the skin ages, due to it losing the ability to renew itself. Certain essential oils may help to diminish wrinkles in the eye area. Most importantly when applying anything to your under or over eyes, always use very, very, very gently dabbing or patting. Never rub, pull, tug, or use anything stronger than a light touch from your middle or fourth finger. Your index finger is just too strong for delicate application. Wrinkle Categori es.We may have one or more types of creases under and over our eyes, each of which occurs due to a different cause. Dynamic wrinkl es form from repeated contraction of muscles underneath the skin. Dynamic wrinkles typically develop between the eyebrows and on the forehead. Crow’s feet, which are wrinkles near the outer corners of the eyes, are also an example of dynamic wrinkles. Static wrin kles remain visible even when the facial muscles are at rest from exposure to the sun, smoking, and poor nutrition. Wrinkle folds are the age-related sagging of facial structures that usually develop in the grooves between the nose and mouth, but they may also occur underneath the eyes. Home Remedies such as placing slices of cucumber on the eyes or applying banana face masks, are popular but there is no scientific data to support these, although they feel good and can ‘plump’ those areas of delicate skin for a short period of time. Prevention Wrinkles are an inevitable part of aging, but people can take steps to prevent them. These include: Wear sunscreen with a minimum SPF of 30 every day Avoiding sitting in direct sunlight Moisturize gently with organic products everyday Only gently pat the under and over eye area Stop smoking, if relevant Eat a healthful, balanced diet The Good News The good news is that some studies suggest that polyphenols, a chemical compound in foods and essential oils can diminish the appearance of eye wrinkles. Polyphenols are a micronutrient found in many plant-based foods. The four main categories are: Flavonoids found in colorful fruits, vegetables, tea, and wine. Phenolic acids found in the seeds, skins, and leaves of fruits and vegetables. Lignans found in whole grains, nuts, and seeds. Stilbenes are abundant in peanuts, grapes, and berries. We can all do our own research, experimentation, and applications to see what enhances our particular delicate eye area skin texture. From my own experimentation, I found that combining certain organic essential oils reduces my dry, creased, and loose eye area skin. Since necessity is the mother of invention, I created GYG Organic Eye Serum, https://www.growingyoungergracefully.com, with all organic essential oils to diminish lines, reduce puffiness, increase hydration, and bring a vitality to my dull delicate skin that I am eager to share with you. GYG Organic Eye Serum is a unique formula of: Castor Oil, rich in polyphenols, penetrates the skin and has been shown to stimulate the body’s own production of collagen and elastin. Castor oil is a humectant, meaning it helps the skin hold on to water molecules and helps to sustain hydration over a longer period of time Grapeseed Oil rejuvenates naturally, nourishing while minimizing the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles under eye area where dark circles appear. Coconut Oi l carries antioxidants and anti-inflammatory compounds that can hydrate the under-eye area, reduce inflammation, and potentially lighten dark circles. Almond Oil c an help to lighten the dark circles under eyes and reduce puffiness thanks to its anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties. Almond oil also contains retinol, vitamin E, and vitamin K, which can keep the delicate skin under your eyes smooth without irritating it. These naturally occurring ingredients may also help contract the dilated blood vessels that are causing the discoloration. Avocado Oil can help reduce dark circles, puffiness, and wrinkles It can be used morning and evening to reduce the appearance of signs of fatigue or skin sagging. Gently dabbing (never tugging or rubbing) helps to stimulate blood and lymphatic circulation, and has a draining effect. Avocado oil is suitable for all skin types Helichrysum Oil tightens and tones the delicate skin around the eyes, quickly absorbing to remove puffiness and supports plumping to give your eyes a fresh vibrant look. As a woman over 60, solo entrepreneur, and creator of GYG Organic Serums, I am proud to offer GYG Organic Face, Eye, & Body Serums with no chemicals, no preservatives, and no corporate overlords . GYG Organic Serums is just me creating plant-based, clean, organic, handmade, blessed, and made with love. For more information, pleas visit https://www.growingyoungergracefully.com.
Now is the season of warm sunny days, sand in your toes, lots of outdoor fun and.....SUNSCREEN! Here are a few hints to keep you safe from the harmful effects of the sun's rays that can damage the skin on your lovely face and body: First apply GYG Organic Facial Serum and GYG Organic Body Serum as a base so your skin is nourished with organic ingredients and let your sunscreen sit on top, not in your pores. No product is truly “waterproof,” and none protects your skin for more than 40 to 80 minutes. Don’t forget your lips. If you put lipgloss on your lips that does not have sun protection, you’re sizzling them. Always opt for a sunscreen that provides both UVA and UVB to protect your skin from ultraviolet-B (UVB) rays, which cause sunburns and skin damage, as well as ultraviolet-A (UVA) rays that increase your risk for skin cancer. Most people don’t apply enough sunscreen. For best protection, apply one ounce of sunscreen to every part of your body exposed to the sun. Invest the time and care in yourself. Reapply, reapply, reapply. That’s paramount! Liberally apply sunscreen 30 minutes before going outside as your skin can take up to a half-hour to absorb the protection. The best protection is a hat, sunglasses, long sleeves, and shade! To keep your skin protected, nourished, and GLOWing, wear GYG Organic Body Serum under your sunscreen.
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We all experience some type of stress, anxiety, and frustration these days. A simple release can come from listening to joyful, peaceful, melodic sounds be it music, sounds of the waves, birds singing, or whatever delights you. The ways that your body reacts to various sounds and vibrations can have an uplifting and calming impact on your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Sound frequencies can slow down the brain waves and bring about a deeply restorative state that activates the body's own self-healing. A few benefits from sounds that heal .... Deep Relaxation Clears emotional blockages Boosts your health Supports mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being LISTEN HERE
Here is fantastic message about ANTI anti-aging from my friend Margaret Manning at Sixty & Me. Margaret appeals to influencers and others to celebrate our aging, not hide just as I do in my book "GROWING YOUNGER GRACEFULLY: Your Guide To Aging with Vitality, Resilience, and Pizzazz." https://www.growingyoungergracefully.com/ Aging doesn't need a 'cure', it is to be honored, cherished, and revered!
I want to share this informative article from The New York Times that alerts us that many personal care products contain harmful chemicals. You won’t find ANY in GYG Face & Body Organic Serums. Read The New York Times, February 15, 2023 HERE: Many Personal Care Products Contain Harmful Chemicals. Here’s What to Do About It. Take these small steps to lower your exposure. Please check the products you are using for harmful chemicals…. and toss them. You have no worries with GYG Organic Facial & Body Serums. I use only all organic essential oils of Grapeseed, Vitamin E, Lavender, Frankincense, Helichrysum, and Rose. I hand make, bless, and create each bottle of GYG Serum in small batches to nourish, hydrate, protect, tone, and brighten your beautiful skin!! Get Your Trusted GYG Organic Face & Body Serums HERE !
NAVIGATING GRIEF IN OUR BODIES by Sheena Nancy Sarles, April 1, 2022 As we age, we are more exposed to death, loss, grief, and mourning. We feel our losses deeply and we seek some kind of accessible comfort through our tears. Those tears form our river of grief. Grief Is Like a River While grief and loss are universal, our own grief is very personal. No one can really know what we alone are feeling. In my own experiences with the deep loss of my parents, my best friend, and, most of all, my big sister, I know the river of loss quite well. Like a river, sometimes my grief is deep and still, or ferocious like rapids. I swim with it and against it. Sometimes I am next to it, or floating, or just witnessing the flow. My grief is always with me in some manner because it is part of who I am now. For me, connecting my grief with my chakras offers me an emotional, spiritual, and physical outlet for my pain. The chakras are the seven main energy centers in our subtle bodies. I found that gentle yoga connected to my chakras allowed me to be present, feel my feelings, and continue to survive, and even thrive while immersed in my grief. I invite you to take a conscious assessment of where your grief settles and congests and using these ideas, become aware of how you can find release and even comfort on your journey of grief. Grief Manifesting in Your Bod y When I feel fearful, ungrounded, or unstable, I know my grief is in my first, ROOT chakra at the base of my spine and perineum. I breathe in and visualize the color red. I stretch my legs out, grounded on the earth and move my feet in flex, arch, and circles. I am safe right here and right now. I repeat “I AM.” When I feel stuck, disconnected, unmoving, or with a low back ache, my grief is in my second, SACRAL chakra in the hips and lower back. I move my hips in a cat/cow or make hip circles in a sitting position. I breathe in and visualize the color orange. I am connected to the others. I repeat “I FEEL.” My belly can become congested, and I feel no motivation to do anything. That is my third, SOLAR PLEXUS chakra between the navel and lowest rib. I practice gentle abdominal sit-ups and activate my belly with deep breaths visualizing the color yellow. I am in the world and able to participate. I repeat “I DO.” I am heartbroken. I feel so lonely. I am so sad and my grief rests right on my fourth, HEART chakra in the center of my chest. I open my heart with hands clasped or reach my arms behind my back, give myself a good hug, then open my arms to the sky. I am grateful to have loved and been loved. I breathe in the color green, take a walk in nature, and listen to my heartbeat. I repeat “I LOVE.” A weak voice or sore throat is my fifth, THROAT chakra around my neck holding my grief. I cannot speak or express myself. I practice gentle neck rolls, sing aloud, and find comfort in any creative way to communicate to another. I visualize the color blue and breathe into my throat. I repeat “I SPEAK.” My sixth, THIRD EYE chakra manifests my grief in headaches or blurry vision, between and just above my eyebrows. I cannot see clearly as my two eyes look out and my third eye looks inward. I open my eyes as wide as I can, and l move my eyes to each number in a big clock, counterclockwise, and follow my thumb as I move it to the extreme right and left. I breathe into my eyelids and visualize the color purple. I repeat “I KNOW.” My seventh, CROWN chakra is the white light, like a halo, hovering above my head. I can feel the energy of my beloved when I close my eyes, see their faces, and trust their divine energy is nearby. To access their love, I breathe in the white light above, around, and within me. I repeat “I UNDERSTAND.” Becoming Aware When we are aware of how our bodies and minds respond to our grief, we can find some comfort in the messages delivered by our chakras. We can move, breathe, visualize, and know that our grief and loss are also our love. We can navigate our losses without getting lost through our chakras. Here is a brief introduction to Yoga for Living with Loss: Please visit my website where you can find my Yoga for Living with Loss Video Series, Yoga for Living with Loss blogs, workshops and weekly zoom classes. What does your grief feel like? Do you imagine it is like a river, or does it have a different shape? Does it change with time? Let's Have a Conversation! I have read and agree to Terms and Conditions of website and agree to my Facebook data being stored and used as per Privacy Policy Sheena Nancy Sarles is the passionate founder of Growing Younger Gracefully™, creator of GYG Organic Facial and Body Serums™, author of “Growing Younger Gracefully: Your Guide to Aging with Vitality, Resilience, and Pizzazz,” and a lifelong student of well-being. Please visit her at www.GrowingYoungerGracefully.com